Dainty woman – A female who has a mentality/mindset/line of thinking that is often described as meek, demure, unobtrusive (mahinhin), delicate and is often described as Mary Sue/Maria Clara in character.
Hell, the concept of Yamato Nadeshiko doesn’t really fall under the dainty category is because, YN’s are known for their wisdom. Usually, they’re prim and proper women who have the grace and elegance that doesn’t really need to seem delicate. To be honest, the correct term should be “damsel in distress.”
Statement: Dainty Women are Stupid Hypocrites
The reason why I am saying this is because–it is a FACT. No scientific explanation needed.
So to speak, here are my statements:
“Dainty women are more likely to be hypocritical.”
No wonder, I do not like Sunshine Cruz. Granted, she’s talented, but I don’t like her personality.
Daintiness is more like, you speak out your mind tapos you have poor and cheap taste pala, that’s why I agree the fact that dainty women have higher chances to become hypocrites. Hindi gaya ng mga domineering alpha females, they really practice what they really preach. Kung baga, dainty women are well-liked by elitist women and egocentric jerks and elitist men is because they tend to be prim and mahinhin in a very pretentious fashion.
I also find most of them pretentious–so to speak, they criticize Castillian-looking women with Malay-looking daughters… but don’t they realize that their taste is similar to whom they’re criticizing? Gretchen Barretto is one prime example. She tends to criticize Claudine’s adopted daughter Sabina pero siya? Alam na!
The reason why I prefer the likes of G Toengi, Marlene Aguilar and Cheska Garcia is because they’re alpha females, over the likes of Donita Rose, Sunshine Cruz and Gretchen Barretto. Daintiness isn’t about being mahinhin, there are some strong and feisty women who also tend to have a dainty mindset. Good thing the former three are very consistent–thus, they get what they deserve.
No wonder, elitists in GirlTalk prefer the latter three because they’re not as “bitchesa” as the former three, if the former three naman are better in improving their genes. In short, elitist women don’t like any competition.
This makes me believe that dainty women are stupid hypocrites–they value their ego/pride over their future. Buti na lang, I myself am not dainty–someone who also pretends to be virginal.
To add, dainty women go ga-ga over elitistic men and egocentric jerks is because they believe that they’re good leaders. To be honest, NO. You’d rather be submissive to someone who is the opposite of an egocentric jerk. If I were let’s say, blessed with Castillian features, I would take advantage of it to marry off a rich Spaniard, Philippine-born, or a non-traditional Chinese guy (pure, half, three-quarters or one-quarter, doesn’t really matter at all–basta hindi traditional because I find most of them elitist and matapobre at the same time!). Sorry for sounding racist, but kung sino pa nga ang hindi halos pure Pinoy, sila pa ang mas family-oriented and more suitable for a woman who’s more practical in looking for a lifetime partner. If you find my comments kinda off and unbecoming, may pinaghuhugutan lahat iyan.
Yeah, another example of someone who qualifies as alpha female: Steph Ayson. She may seem straightforward and not someone to mess with, yet she was submissive to AJ Perez. See? Alpha females tend to be submissive to someone who isn’t egocentric–someone who is a MAN WITH BALLS. She took advantage of her looks (though she said she’s not Chinese, to be honest she is part-Chinese–her father looks like one!) to choose someone who is a respectable man.
That is why I chose to be alpha female over being a dainty damsel in distress. Many egocentric jerks like to control women–but not in my watch. Rather marry someone like Richard Yap over Cesar Montano. Seriously.
If you’re going to ask me, it’s like being an apologist to the wrong people. Here’s my other statement:
Elitist and dainty women tend to slut-shame women who were involved in a sex video scandal, but they tend to be apologists of man-stealers, cheaters and homewreckers.
You have no right to say, “I hate Kris Aquino” if you’re an apologist of Maja Salvador and Cristine Reyes. The latter two are equally homewrecker like Kristulo. If you feel like questioning me, then you are nuts. I also hated Mischa Barton and Julia Roberts because they do not actually practice what they preach (HAHA, I suspect these two big-mouthed bitches are homewreckers as well LMFAO! That’s why poor Mischa–she isn’t as popular as Blake Lively or Leighton Meester, or Katie Holmes).
Dainty Women are like Egocentric Men – They only care about their pride/ego
No wonder, I prefer G Toengi, Marlene Aguilar and Cheska Garcia over Donita Rose, Sunshine Cruz and Gretchen Barretto. Yep, elitist women tend to detest the former three but they’re sympathetic apologists to the latter three (hey, no disrespect to the latter three but yeah…). Well, elitist women, like dainty women, are apologists to the wrong people.
LIKE… they feel sorry for black sheeps, which I don’t think sounds good. If I have a black sheep son/daughter, I won’t think twice to disown him/her.
Misconceptions about alpha females–they only care about their pride. To be honest, not really so. Alpha’s usually are richer in wisdom than their dainty counterparts. If the elitists in GirlTalk despise the former three for their strong personalities, that’s because they don’t want any form of competition… or they’re self-righteous.
If ma-pride ang mga alphas, usually they’re ready to swallow it.
Dainty Women are attractive towards Elitist and Egocentric Men
If you’re an alpha and you fall for an egocentric or elitist man–think again. He’s not meant for you at the first place. Like what I said, they only care about their pride/ego, that’s why expect their girlfriends to be obedient and extremely subservient towards them. They are afraid of alpha females is because they feel insecure when being overpowered by the alphas. These egocentric jerks and elitist men have an A-type personality that manifests the “macho pride” that promotes sexism and misogyny.
And PLEASE people, those who will tell you that “mataas and pride ng lalaki” or “natural sa mga lalaki ang pagiging palikero” are mostly dainty women or those women who praise and submit to the Macho Culture that is wrongly manifested by egocentric men. To be honest, dainty women + egocentric man combination is actually dangerous–they’re horrible in raising children. Why? Again, their high sense of pride + hypocrisy.
Why I look down on dainty women
Elitist women may accuse me for condemning dainty women while having praise towards alphas, but that’s because I myself have the mindset of an alpha female–yes, she gets along with boys, but she knows her limitations. She’s careful of her actions while doing crazy stuff–which dainty women cannot even do.
And HELLO, they’re even more judgmental kaya compared to the alphas. If alphas know they’re wrong, they’ll do ways to correct it. Hindi kagaya sa mga dainty women, like for instance, mali naman talaga si egocentric jerk, but she’s still accepting it as “normal lang iyan.” For alphas, it’s not even normal.
Condoning the egocentrism of the egocentric guy is pure bullcrap. I shit you not! If you have to step on someone’s pride, there should be sufficient evidence to do so.
Dainty women also LACK the wisdom, speaking of lovelife. Their beauty and intelligence are USELESS because they don’t have wisdom to improve their lives, at the very least. Ni hindi man lang nila kayang sawayin ang mga asawa nilang egocentric, eh! HAHAHA!
Sadly, I really hated my maternal great-grandmother (RIP btw) for being stupid for not marrying the rich Spanish guy and instead, married a poor native (sayang naman, to think she’s beautiful and intelligent plus the fact that her features are really Castillian). Daintiness runs through their veins, but thankfully I don’t have that trait at all. As a matter of fact, speaking of lovelife, I’d rather remain single and being an old maid than to marry someone who’s a poor native tapos egocentric jerk pa’t mataas pa ang pride, tapos ang pangit pa ng kalalabasang lahi. DIBA!?
Some may call me elitist and domineering (as what dainty women would most likely say–accusing the alphas), but being a domineering woman has its perks. Like, come on. Why give in towards the egocentrism of a guy? Being dainty just for the egocentric guy to fall for you is the MOST STUPID THING that a woman will ever do. Alphas could be submissive if they feel that the guy deserves it. That is why I am still chaste up to now. If I were to give up my own virginity, that is for someone who shall deserve my submissiveness.
Now I will tell you this: Do not give up your virginity to someone who’s an arrogant, unfriendly, typical egocentric jerk who is very proud of devirginizing a woman before marriage. Give it to someone who will regret devirginizing a woman before marriage (seriously, no shit).
That is the reason why egocentric jerks hate me so much, they won’t let others step on their pride/ego. Hell, why should I fall for them, they don’t deserve me, anyway. Kung ako pa siguro ang dyowa, hindi ko na babalikan iyan, unless kung kami lang talaga ang nagmamahalan sa isa’t isa.
Alpha Females > Dainty Women
The reason why is because… alam na!
Alpha females HATE egocentric jerks. Just look at G, Marlene and Cheska. They don’t talk about their lovelife or marital/family matters as compared to Donita, Sunshine and Greta. Alpha females may talk about their lovelife, but at least they’re careful of their words. Instead, they tend to avoid that topic and prefer to talk about intellectual stuff.
Also, alphas are more empowering! They hate egocentric jerks to the core so much that they will still remain alpha, no matter what happens. Honestly speaking, alphas are less judgmental to women who committed PMS or to those women who were involved in a sex video scandal.
In short, they’re apologists to those scandal victims who have a sense of delicadeza.
Dainty women, meanwhile, are apologists to homewreckers. Kung ang lakas-lakas nilang manlalit sa mga kabit(ch) na wala namang intensyong magpaloko sa mga egocentric jerks, they’re apologists to man-stealers, cheaters and homewreckers at the same time. Like elitist women, if they’re apologists and forgiving to Maja and Cristine at the same time, then again, they have no right to be a hater of Kris Aquino.
People, being a homewrecker is MORE SINFUL compared when being involved in a sex video scandal. Actually, I have nothing against PMS being videotaped/recorded naman eh, it’s only that it should not be viewed by people OUTSIDE the four corners of the said couple’s space. Simple as that.
The only thing with these dainty women is that, again, they tend to be more hypocritical than their alpha counterparts. Alphas slut-shame homewreckers, but they usually blame it to the cheating men. No wonder, if Majarot and KubetAA has friends, definitely they won’t have any set of friends who are alpha females. Malamang, these alphas HATE them to the core.
I bet, tsismosa-ako is alpha.
To be honest, dainty women are more likely to be fooled/preyed by egocentric men. In Tagalog, mas madali silang lokohin. You see, these dainty women are contented with someone who is… a low-quality guy. Or someone who is a mama’s boy.
Now I will tell you this: I ditched that guy who courted me two years ago, and I don’t regret every single bit of it. He’s a prime example of an egocentric jerk, someone that dainty women will go ga-ga at. But when I knew his true attitude, I ditched him step-by-step, and he’s asking me to apologize through a mutual friend. LOL, the power of alpha females stepping on an egocentric jerk’s pride! LMFAO!
Also, dainty women are BAD in giving love advice. They’re almost stupid and unwise in everything! In short, mahina talaga ang pickup nila, not like me, I have to admit, mabagal talaga pickup ko, but at least I do something to explode that diaphragm in my brain that doesn’t allow me to think faster. Ugh. So much for having that dainty-minded gene that is a curse!
Reasons why I prefer Alphas over Dainty Women
1.) Alphas are better in improving their genes – They don’t want someone who will make their children look like a hipon, bayawak and mukhang paa. Ayaw nila ng low-quality genes, while dainty women are pretty much notorious for settling for someone who has low-quality or bad genes, so to speak. HAHA! Kaya hindi lahat ng mga puti, mahilig sa mga “low-quality” looks by Filipino standards. They also look into the personality of a woman–mas prefer pa nila talaga ang alpha sa dainty.
2.) Alphas prefer laid-back, prim and proper guys who are more brusko than women – In short, they don’t like wimps. Egocentric jerks have higher tendencies to become wimps if faced with extremely difficult situations. They hate spoiled brats, gusto nila, ‘yung lalaking MAN enough to spoil/pamper them, while at the same time not meddling with their decisions. Aaaand… alphas like men who are GOOD in child-rearing. Dainty women go ga-ga over egocentric men, knowing that the latter are HORRIBLE in child-rearing.
3.) Between Cesar Montano and Richard Yap, alphas choose the latter – Richard Yap broke Chinese tradition by marrying a non-Chinese. In short, he’s a non-traditional Filipino-Chinese guy. Usually, Filipino-Chinese guys who are NON-traditional tend to be MORE excellent in child-rearing than their egocentric Filipino counterparts. No wonder, Lea Salonga married Robert Chien, who happens to be Chinese-Canadian. Sorry girls, but Buboy is a horrible husband, what more sa pagiging tatay niya. Infairness kay Sunshine, she called it quits… but she’s like “Sige na Buboy, oh!” Deym.
4.) If alphas will have the same features like most dainty women, they’ll take advantage of it to win the heart of high-quality men – In short, if I were half-Chinese, half-Spanish with fair skin and straight hair with those envied aristocratic features most Pinays go gaga with, I will take advantage of it together with my intelligence to choose the rich Spaniard who is imperfect but laid-back and is interested towards me over a poor native who is an airhead. Sounds elitist to dainty women? Screw them.
5.) Alphas tend to be less self-righteous and has a more progressive line of thought – Alphas do not tend to sympathize with the wrong people. Granted, nakiki-sakay sila sa opinyon ng karamihan, yet they do their best to keep neutral. Also, alphas tend to be consistent in maintaining their high standards plus their rich and expensive taste in almost every aspect of the world.
6.) Alphas tend to be more sensitive towards others – Unlike dainty women and egocentric jerks, alphas always keep an open mind, appreciating and admiring people with tattoos and piercings… not like those people who act so clean… you know the rest. That is why I would be proud to have a gay son or a tattooed daughter just in case. LOL
7.) Alpha females do not discriminate women who are no longer virgins – Dainty women have a higher tendency to discriminate women who are no longer virgins, but they tend to be apologists of women who most likely to be homewreckers. Hell, I don’t think Majarot and KubetAA are still chaste, since alam niyo nang marami na silang “pinagdaanan.” Hell, alpha females tend to look down towards homewreckers and man-stealers.
What Philippine society thinks
Sadly, Philippine society, despite being a conservative-relaxed culture, still buys the fact that dainty women should be glorified while alphas should be condemned.
LAOS NA PO SI MARIA CLARA, sa totoo lang.
To be honest, Filipino society should stop promoting macho culture like fuck. No wonder, I hate the elitists of FFreethinkers who happens to be palamunin. YUCK! So far, the elitists in FFreethinkers might be sons of corrupt politicians who are engrossed in video games plus the mere fact na baka… magulang nila may connections with the Yellow Zombies kaya UNGGAK-UNGGAK ang kaisipan! PWEH!
To those self-righteous elitists who will be bashing in this blog entry
Hahaha… expect that you will be banned in this website without any hesitation. Remember, ipakita niyo sa akin na mas may class pa kayo kesa sakin!